Warning: the following post is
rated R and discusses sex on the Internet
Our research confirms that the sex drive is strong in mammals. Even Steven J. Gould said so and he should know. In its small way, the Internet has helped reveal this enduring truth by providing easy access to a vast amount of pornography of all types, as well as commentary on this porn deluge by outraged or not so outraged consumers.
Porn is one of the boom industries of our civilization. It is international, multicultural, omnipresent and profitable beyond the wildest dreams of the most exploitative or idealistic of the pornographers. Very few industries can compete with it in scope and economic importance.
We recently came across a commentary on the phenomena of Internet pornography by two feminist authors on the New Statesman web site. What particularly caught our attention was the free expression of commentary on the editorial by readers who felt the need to share their reaction and personal experiences with us.
The authors, Rhiannon Cosslett
and Holly Baxter of Vagenda Magazine, bring up a number of topics in their essay "The Big Question that the Generation Raised on Porn Must Answer", It begins with the provocative statement:
Porn often shows a submissive woman, stripped of all of her body hair, undergoing ritual
humiliation in the name of sexuality, and twenty somethings must ask whether that has
wider implications about how our peers view us socially, politically and professionally.
Apparently the whole issue of who shaves and who does not is an important feminist issue. But we do wonder if the authors have looked at the broad range of porn that is out there, or perhaps have focused on one particular aspect of it. But nevermind, the helpful Internet, with its social networking and online commentary, comes to their rescue.
One
man wrote in response something along the lines of: he personally
watches a lot of pornography on the internet and it generally involves
big hunky men doing nasty things to other big hunky men and he
absolutely guarantees that there are no women involved, shaved or otherwise.
Then
a woman commented that she likes watching pornography of shaved women
being used by big hunky men and so do a lot of her friends and
is this editorial saying that they should stop watching it because
that isn't bloody likely.
A
second man wrote in to share with us that he felt that this editorial
was absolutely correct and that men were being awful here and that if
she wanted to step all over him with her boots in punishment or maybe
spit on him, that would be ok with him because he certainly deserved
it. All men deserved to be beaten by women, he seemed to be saying.
But
here is the coup de grace: many people felt that this last
comment (on being abused by women) was "creepy"
and made them uneasy. In other words, their sexual preference was
ok, but his... well, not so much.
At Global Wahrman we want to go on record to say that we are happy to hear that people are enjoying themselves and want to encourage this type of behavior as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult and takes a shower afterwards.
For another more amusing slant on the issue of sex from what may be a feminist point of view, consider In Defense of Bad Sex by Laurie Penney
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